How To Get Your Ex To Return Your Calls

Has your relationship with your Ex suddenly fell apart? You cannot even get him/her to talk about it. They simply won't answer your calls.

Sound Familiar?

Well if it does, keep reading and you will learn how to overcome this common problem.

Do you have any 'magic' words you can use that will hit home and get your ex to return your phone calls?

Seems a bit far fetched, right?

WRONG!

There ARE words that will have such a profound affect on him that he will almost certainly feel compelled to return your call.

Cool huh?...

Well I have received so many questions on this topic from my over 34,000 subscribers - people just like you who are trying to save their relationship, that I decided to share this information.

So I am going to answer...

"How do I get my ex to return my phone call, text or IM?"

HOWEVER

WARNING!

In the Magic Of Making Up, I lay out a complete strategy.
Click Here!

Don't use this technique alone, without an 'overall' plan or strategy...

you may damage your relationship more than if they never returned your call.

What NOT to Say!

Before we discuss the actual words, I would like to reveal what message almost NEVER works.

and far worse...

It will almost certainly have a "psychological" impact on you.

These usually fall into 2 categories.

The PLEAD- Where the message sounds like

"John, please, please call me. This is the 3rd time I have called. I HAVE to talk to you."

And the EMERGENCY-

"Mandy, this is an emergency. Please call me as soon as you get this."

Now, I think you can see what is wrong with both of those approaches?

So, I won't go on and on...

How To Use Curiosity & Self Interest To Your Advantage

Two of the most powerful forces in the human mind are

*Curiosity & *Self Interest

And here's the BIG SECRET!
Now combining the two gives you the magic ingredient

So...

Let's look at what you can say that works nearly EVERY TIME.

In a friendly tone:

"Hi John. It's Cindy. I wanted to let you know I appreciate what you did for me. Call me because I want to thank you in person."

So you have effectively used BOTH curiosity and self interest?

John will NOT be able to resist! He will be thinking... "What did I do?" "What does she appreciate?" And because it is a positive message he will be feeling good.

Now...

Before you call you need to devise the "Set Up"...
which is figuring out what he/she actually did that you appreciate.
It can be any small thing...but needs to be something plausible.
But more importantly...

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2nd WARNING!
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Please have an underlying strategy like I lay out in the Magic Of Making Up System BEFORE you call. Click Here!

If you implement this technique without carefully planning your strategy you will incur more damage than good.

So you have one change to get this right.

Okay?

What I am saying is...

Your Actions before, during and after you get them to return your call is MORE important than getting them to return your call.

Make sense?

Have a PLAN. To help you devise a solid plan Click Here!


GOOD LUCK